And to the woman, do the same thing and hopefully you'll find a guy of your dreams. I'm thoroughly smitten by a woman who is 15 years older than me, and if I let my fears stop me from talking to her when she first reached out to me, I'd have made the biggest mistake of my life.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
For the purpose of this post, by "older women" I do not mean old women or women of any certain age or age range; I mainly mean women who are older than the man in question. Older women are more confident and comfortable around men - especially younger men, since they know that their experience cancels out some of his natural power over her. Some men know that older women are easier to nail, which is often why they pursue them.
Older women should be cynical about younger men who claim they want to date seriously, or remain silent about commitment. Women peak somewhere in their twenties for external attractiveness. In general, men disagree about the age at which women "peak" - partially because it varies depending on the woman and partially because guys have different taste.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Things that surprise me range from how well they give oral to what they think about a certain style or genre of music. Also, that not all older women want kids or have kids, which would've been a sticking point for me.
Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex.
You don't expect someone who is so much older to have so much in common with you or the desire to connect with you the way some older women do. And with 15 years more experience, they're more interesting to talk to. Man A: Older women are more open to letting you try new things. I only had one friend with benefits after that who was six years older then me. Since then I've always looked for older women above all else. Now I'm 31, and I have more experience sexually and a desire to satisfy my partner in every way I can. I hooked up with a 30-year-old when I was 18, so I was always into it per se, but I didn't really start dating older women until I was 20 and I met this pretty hot college teacher online.Man B: Yes, I didn't like that most women my own age didn't seem to be in control of the relationship or in bed.Man C: I married a girl my age and dated a couple others who were around my age.