Now I mostly would talk to moms, because as a dad, I thought them safe. Just because they read a profile and a few correspondences or shared one cocktail at a bar, they felt they knew me and felt comfortable.
As a man who is an excellent communicator and emotionally connected, I was one of the most dangerous of daters.
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys? Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission". Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her... When you do these things, you send a clear message: "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want. They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION! You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did? Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Although having a weekly date may seem like a no-brainer, many couples’ good intentions quickly get put off to some future time, when life is not so busy or there’s more money.
It was kinda easy to WOO and WOW women on the phone and they not only thought me safe, they felt an almost unique connection with me.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to. One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out. I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States...
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.
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