Dating someone who has been abused

...everytime i mention getting counseling or going back to it ..GF gets defensive..i honestly sit down and try to make it a comfortable atmosphere to talk to her about it..she still gets upset..she is in denial.me and her are doomed..correct?? I also live about 60 miles from her..seem to create a problem with rebuilding the trust..tips on what to do about rebuilding the trust....i answer all her questions and i am diligently trying ....i have no reason to ever lie to her again..dont want to...i thought i was help out and old GF because i could relate to how hard it was to loose a mother....since this happend 4 1/2 weeks ago I havent had any contact with the ex and dont want to.....

What are your tips for "tweaking" are communication?? Boomer Also jmargel, its been almost 2 weeks since we have physically seen each other and about 2days since we've had any communication...

Counselling can help, both couples counselling and counselling for your GF.

For your GF getting into a support group for survivors of DV will help her immensely.

First is it true that a woman with a low self esteem only attract bad boys ex con and they shouldnt be with them???

Well everyone I am an ex con white collar crime due to a gambling problem and I have been in recovery for 3 yrs ..I have been to jail a few times in the past 15 yrs....3 to be exact..longest amount I did on the state work program was 36 months....

Both my ex-fiancee & my wife have had their share of abuse.I am in a relationship and have been for about 3 1/2 months the woman I am with I love very much.But in here previous marriage in which she has been divorced for over a year when we met she was married 8 yrs but was with him 11yrs.Survivors of DV can have challenges recognizing what is or is not abuse or DV.When your GF was in her abusive relationship she got programmed into reacting a certain way to triggers.

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