When you think you have opened the channels of communication, also share your own concerns and hesitations about being with a recovering alcoholic.This will bring things out in the open and your partner may be actually relieved about addressing relationship issues instead of keeping things under wraps.Plan dates with care It is usual for regular couples a fancy restaurant on a special occasion like an anniversary or Valentine’s Day and celebrate with a glass of wine.
Ask him/ her about their unhappy experience and at the same time share with your partner your views and experiences with alcoholism.
You should never put your partner in a position where she has to choose between remaining sober and being with you.
Take all this into consideration before planning dates, family gathering, work parties or any other outing.
So read a book or go through online resources about the struggles people with alcoholism have faced.
Even better, ask a mental health professional about the disorder and what you can do, as a partner, to ensure that your date is able to stay on the path to recovery.