” ~ “Your husband is the same age as your brother, is it like being married to your brother? I’m worried about that he’ll get too old and then one day will die long before me.
I wanted to know what other people think, who have a ~30 year difference relationship, on is it worth it or should I let him go??
A lot of people may say that age is a state of mind, that a person is only as old as they feel.
That is an upbeat and optimistic approach to aging; however the question is if that applies when it comes to relationships.
In all the ways that a couple can be compatible age is pretty low on my list.
Whether you want to concentrate on your career, have children or spend your free time traveling; ask yourself if your partner??
and so far great i feel an experriance in life but to complicate things i am also seeing a younger girl my age 19 .
I have fallin more for the older lady what should i do.
Maturity level, shared interests and priorities are all important- a lot of love isn’t enough to make up for disconnects in those areas.
Still, a significant age gap (generally considered more than 8-10 yrs if both are adults) is going to have issues that other relationships don’t.