It’s important to remember that you have the power to be an active bystander.Ultimately, your family member is the only person who can choose to stop the abuse, but there are a few things you can do to encourage them to behave in healthier ways.We like Ok Cupid's whole package — a huge user base, slick interface, the fact that it’s free — but its real strength lies in its robust matching algorithm.It not only asks you questions about your personality, likes, and dislikes (“Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved?” and “What do you spend a lot of time thinking about?”) but also lets you rate how important a potential match’s answers to those same questions are.
To unlock features like incognito mode, read receipts, and a larger inbox, you can upgrade to a paid plan for per month, but we think the free version is more than enough to get started.
But of course, without your voice, it’s hard for your personality to shine through in your profile.
The best ones strike a balance between both approaches.
Bumble offers an experience that’s very similar to Tinder, but with a twist: Women have to start the conversation.
If they don’t, the match will disappear after 24 hours, although you can upgrade to a paid account to keep matches around longer.