While men may appear to prize freedom and independence, in their heart of hearts they truly value loyalty.In standing by her man, a woman can fill a primal absence.The thing is, men are not limited, and if women decide to sacrifice a little superiority they will gain better treatment by men.Just look at the vibrant imagination of any 5-year-old boy or recall the way past boyfriends have courted you—we can be highly animated, curious, loving and devoted.Talking with men about their interests is a great way to get away from the conventional ways they are seen—even how they see themselves—which will help ensure a more unconventional (and improved) masculinity.Myth #4: Males Are Limited Creatures "Men as underdeveloped" is the most effective propaganda the male sex has created.Take a look at the 10 biggest falsehoods about men that, when debunked, can lead us to true masculinity.Myth #1: Men Are Not Emotional This may come as a surprise, but men are probably more emotional than women. Unlike femininity, masculinity doesn't permit emoting on a regular basis, so men are like Victorian novels: placid on the outside, but concealing a deep emotional life within.
Myth #5: Men Hate to Commit Masculinity is one of the most oppressive forces as far as behavior goes because it demands that men appear "tough" at all times, thereby avoiding any overt displays of love and affection, which can be detrimental to a relationship.
Next time you see your mate's desire for sex as chauvinistic, remember that he may be asking for proof that you and he are the team he fantasizes about.
Myth #3: A Man Is His Job For most men, the pressures of work stem from two things: a desire to excel at something (a principle of manhood we were taught as boys) and a need to contribute to the well-being of our families.
Myth #2: Sex Is What Matters the Most Yes, sex is important to men. (At times it might seem like the only way we do.) But one of the big secrets about men is how much they long for real solidarity with their partner.
And sex, because it makes the imagination literal, is something we rely on to achieve that bonded feeling.