I'd rather be with like a solid, kind, smart guy."One year later, she was engaged to one such guy.And one year after my disastrous Mexican dinner, I was in my first serious relationship.Consider the Over the last few years, though, the reverse trend has risen to prominence.
I realized that, at best, I didn't remember most of the names of the guys I did this for, because they were mostly two-date randoms.Slightly over a year ago, I sat at Mexican restaurant waiting for a guy I was supposed to be on a third date with.I'd gotten a blowout, chosen to freeze my ass off in my favorite off-season skirt, and worn Rag & Bone bootie heels so high that a commercial airplane could fly into my head. Everyone else in the restaurant gave me sad eyes as I ordered my third jalapeno margarita." Not only does it show your interest and attentiveness, but also it shows your creativity, which is always a huge plus.” -- Victoria J., 22“When you show me you know how to make plans and you put me into your busy schedule, it shows me that I'm a priority and makes me feel important.Spontaneity is fun and great here and there, but a woman like me is grinding right now and doesn't always have the luxury of that.