And from there the assumption is that they must have a to be so confident and thus are possibly a great ‘catch’.
Whether you’re a man or a woman, you don’t need to go quite this far with it.
This is how the story goes anyway and thus we are often told that in order to solve all our problems, we need only try to become more confident.
Here, guys hoping to meet women will walk into bars wearing strange outfits or accessories like giant hats, and that way they know they’re going to get noticed first of all.
The theory then is that the women in the bar are going to look at these guys in strange outfits and assume that they must be very confident to wear something like that in public.
This is something you can mimic in order to appear more confident – make sure you have a good posture, sit with your legs and arms wider apart on sofas and chairs, and keep your head held higher up.
Another way you can appear more confident, though it may sound surprising, is to lean against things like walls and doors.