” or any kind of talk that tries to PULL him back to you.Yes, I know I might be asking you to do the impossible – but the option is that if you push, you’ll walk away with NOTHING. ) And if you’re worried that he won’t come back after you pull away…Yes, it can mean that he’s trying to gently ease his way out of the relationship. And most people say these things because they’re afraid of the awkwardness of sitting there with someone who’s about to freak out.It can also mean that he’s got a crush outside your relationship. Look – I do what none of the other “dating gurus” out there will do. Sure, they’re rooting for you, but it’s uncomfortable as heck. Usually it’s the women that don’t get men and fail – blaming their situation on him or others – that say men won’t commit.Allow her the time to process what she’s going through, and if she knows you’re there she will come around.
But I think you need to take a few days to get your thoughts together.
Sometimes when a woman is vulnerable, she may be having a hard time letting go. She wants to know that it’s OK to feel what she’s feeling, and that you’re there to listen and to understand.
So the next time a confused woman comes into your world, take the time to listen…don’t take the time to try and fix her.
At some point in nearly all of our romantic lives, we end up dating the wrong person.
It's nothing to be ashamed of — maybe you got swept up in the idea of how fun love seems, and went for it with someone who wasn't right for you.